Writing your first letter to a girl from Dating Website

Overall rule – make your letter short, friendly, informative and creative.

Short . She will receive hundreds or thousands letters. If she opens yours – make it easy for her to read it. Make every word count.

Friendly. You know almost nothing about your party. It’s better to assume she (just like most other girls) likes friendly guys, so be one. Don’t put anything offensive or ambiguous on the first letter. Let’s play safe.

Informative. Put your age, weight, height, occupation and some facts from your past in the letter. You want to get her on the date, remember? But not at any price too. I know it’s very tempting to make yourself look a little better on the e-mail. You may want to be a little younger (or older), taller (or shorter), bigger (or thinner) or even be of different gender (just kidding). I strongly recommend you NOT to do it. Be proud of who you are and honestly tell her about yourself. It’s a matter of honesty and dignity, guys. Don’t lie about yourself. If you lie and you start dating off-line then soon she will know that you were not true. And you will feel ashamed. And she will doubt your honesty. So just be true. I’ve learned it the hard way.

Creative. Make your letter different. Remember, she will receive at least several hundreds letters. So if she opened and read your e-mail don’t make her to regret it. Probably it’s one of the hardest challenges in this exercise. You need to come up with idea that will make a total stranger girl interested in you.